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did I lb?
#1016231 07/18/02 11:38 AM
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Please help me if I handled this phone call right this morning.

Currently separated doing plan-A, so far haven't lbed yet.

Well this morning WW called - talked a little about her finances. Then WW told me she took tomorrow off, I asked her why - she didn't give me a response, very evasive. Asked me if I was going to pick up the kids this evening.

I told WW "xxxxx must be in-town" (OM moved out of state to be with his W).

WW went balistics - "WHAT THE HELL THAT SUPPOSE TO MEAN?" "WHY DON'T YOU CALL HIM AND ASK HIM?"

I told WW, "you know how I feel about our situation..."

WW hung up on me.

I probably lbed big time, but I felt good getting that out there for some reason.

What to do....? if anything? (WW is on-the-fence currently)
Re: did I lb?
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Well,
Let's see, YES of course you LB'd. Don't kick yourself, most of us have done it too. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

If the OM has moved to be with his family and your W is fence sitting, you have a good chance of saving things. I'm not saying that it will be easy, but you need to keep plan Aing as long as you want to save the marriage.

Have you called her back? Did you get the kids? CALMLY tell her how you are feeling and that you regret accusing her of contact. She may very well be meeting him, but don't push her into his arms because she is angry with you over a stupid phone call.

Keep reading all you can here, peace to you! Ladysing <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

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