Hi All,
I visited this site about a year ago (under a different name) and really found some great ideas. I'm sorry to say, I'm divorced, but for those of you who feel the world crashing down right now, believe the others who tell you it DOES get better.
Please excuse me if this has already been discussed, but an idea keeps popping into my head. Over and over I see people wanting to "tell the other man's wife (or husband)". And over and over I see questions about how to go about. It seems to me that an anonymous service of some sort would flourish.
For instance, if you find your wife is having an internet affair, you KNOW you feel tempted to write to this guy directly...or to his wife. BUT, there are forces that stop you from doing that, many of which are discussed at length on this forum.
(Stay with me on this...) It seems to me that a letter from something like "YouGotCaught.com" or "CheatersExposed.com" would, at best, scare the turkey into dropping the affair or, at worst, give the offended party some measure of anonymous revenge.
I realize there'd be some risk of abuse from such a thing. Anyway, it's an idea in the rough. Think of it as a "Blue Mountain" card meant to rattle the cage of these long distance Romeos who think they are undiscovered.
I'm speaking from experience here and would have simply LOVED for my ex's email "friend" to have received such a letter. I vividly remember that each time I felt my ex and I were getting close to reconciliation, there'd be a fresh assault from her virtual lover. Any comments would be welcome. Best wishes to all.
