I called an old friend the other night and we went out to the movies and spent about 3-4 hours talking afterward. This is a friend from back in high school that I have not stayed in contact with for about the last 10-12 yrs. My WW has always been a little jealous of her.

Well I was talking to her on the phone tonight and we were talking about the belief that everything happens for a reason. I must have to learn something from all of this. So does everyone else involved here, weather directly or indirectly. This friend of mine was agreeing with me and let me know that she had been thinking the same thing and that it was really ironic that I had called her out of the blue like this about what is going on in my life. She is single and has never been married. She then proceeded to tell me that she has been seeing a married man for the past three years.

I was floored. I didn't cuss her out and hang up the phone. But, I did tell her some of what I have learned here and the fact that I really believe that she should stop immediately. It went on to some deeper discussions about this A, but I thought, This expands the number of people that will be influenced buy the whole sorted thing.

Thanks and God Bless.