How is PI doing? I know you are in touch with her and hope that she and her children are doing ok? Please let her know I'm thinking of her and praying for her. Thanks.

Dear Unsureheart,

Thanks soo much for asking. I just got on-line and will be speaking to PI later this evening. Her 2nd child visitation drop went well, the WS will be dropping the children off later this evening. She has slightly distant family (D's grandparents) who have taken her in, brought food and provided her and her children room and board. My H and I met them this weekend. They are nice people.

The Ws is still being a WS when given the chance but those chances are definitely getting less and less. His ways are now being made known to more people since more are having to help PI and her family. So time will tell how long he can try and give a lying sob story to the world. He tried to give it to me and may have even sent one to another MBer. But what he does not realize is that his stories and excuses are quite shallow and the rest of the world is not as patient or tolerat as PI has been.

PI may fill in more later. Just knowing what he has done and is doing even in front of his child with the OW is disgusting. It is difficult at times to hold my tongue.

PI is at work right now so she is keeping busy. I think she will look back at these this month and see how much she has progressed despite the odds against her.

I will let you know that you are thinking about her and her family.

Mahalo,
L.

Thank you for the update Orchid. I also saw that you had responded to still waiting. I am very worried about PI, but am reassured that you are able to help her in person. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help her. I am fortunately in a much different situation with my WH -- he's still in a fog, but he's not doing anything outright abusive that I can't handle with friends, family and my own finances.

Thank you again for updating us and sending our thoughts to her.

I was really distressed to hear that her WH continues with the immature and abusive behavior in front of the children. My prayers are with them both and I hope he wakes up soon.