I just KNEW I had crossed "the line" with youseguys I just KNEW I had crossed "the line" with youseguys

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<img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> I just KNEW I had crossed "the line" with youseguys <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

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I sound like YODA !!!!!!!!!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Pepperband:
<strong>I sound like YODA !!!!!!!!!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Yes master Yoda, I am at your service... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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Wow,
I'm speachless

(Good thing I can still type. )

Leave for an appointment and come back and....... . . there goes the neighbourhood.

Maybe I had better get on over to emotional needs and see what normal people are like for a while.

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"Normal" people in the EN forum? I don't know about that...last time I looked, half of them had nervous ticks! LOL!!!

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Pepper,

The important thing is that you DON'T look like Yoda. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

2L, wait until your are certified to hide your own Easter Eggs. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> I am!

Good night you guys and girls.

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> "Normal" people in the EN forum? I don't know about that...last time I looked, half of them had nervous ticks (sic)! </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Gee, 2Long! Where is the insecticide? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> Are MBers infested with nervous ticks? That's not fair! If anyone should have nervous ticks, it should be our WS, not US!!! Gosh, I'm already itching!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Just kiddin'!!

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It's so encouraging to us younger group to know you oldtimers still have your sense of humour <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> LOL!!!

Nah really...good to see you guys laughing. The letter is superb. And, not to raise your hopes...but I could have fit the description of your wife not so long ago. Not to the T...but I too ran from problems and came from a family that did the same. You never know what potential people really have. I'm hoping she pleasantly surprises you.

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Cadet,

Pardon me but I am still responding from you letter on page 2. I will need to catch up with the 'star wars saga' later. LOL!!!

Here's the excerpt from your last letter:\

It has become evident that our M has suffered due to neglect by both of us. While striving to meet the needs of our family we have missed meeting each other’s needs. I sincerely apologize to you for my part in creating an environment that helped make your relationship with OM possible. I foolishly pursued my career thinking I was doing the right thing for us and our family, without understanding my responsibility to meet your most important emotional needs. I was not there for you when you needed me the most and we are now both suffering for my mistakes.

1. 1st & 2nd sentences are good.
2. 3rd sentence needs to be reworded to something like: I sincerely apologize to you for my part in creating an environment that hindered our relationship.

Don't mention that you sent her to the OMs arms because that was never your intent.

JMHO,
L.

ps: I like Yoda. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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SC,

Hope your Tuesday goes well...

Thanks for the help with the Plan b letter..

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Orchid:
<strong>Cadet,

1. 1st & 2nd sentences are good.
2. 3rd sentence needs to be reworded to something like: I sincerely apologize to you for my part in creating an environment that hindered our relationship.

Don't mention that you sent her to the OMs arms because that was never your intent.

JMHO,
L.

ps: I like Yoda. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I think you are right with this, and it's interesting because that particular sentence is, I believe, straight out of the Plan B letter in SAA.

Oh, and I LOVE Yoda! Best character ever! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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H4F:

"It's so encouraging to us younger group to know you oldtimers still have your sense of humour LOL!!!"

We need it. The prospect of pushing up dasies in the not-2-distant future is sobering, to say the least...

" And, not to raise your hopes...but I could have fit the description of your wife not so long ago. Not to the T...but I too ran from problems and came from a family that did the same. You never know what potential people really have. I'm hoping she pleasantly surprises you."

I'm getting deeper into Passionate Marriage. Still only on p 66 at this point. But I really think ol' quantitative 2long's getting some of this relationship stuff! Differentiation! Yeah! Actually, it's the best of the R books that I've read so far.

SC, let us know how things go today. I'm thinking about you.

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JL:

"2L, wait until your are certified to hide your own Easter Eggs. I am!"

Hide em? Heck, I can LAY them! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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Hey Space,
Let us know how things go today.
You're in my prayers.
God bless.

KK

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