My husband is trying to stop all contact OW, its hard for him because the company that he works for she is his employee. he is doing his best to stop all outside of the office contact with her he has had contact with her twice this week but its because she has contacted him.
I asked if he ended it with her and he said not in the words that I would chose but that he has told her in is own way and words (whatever that means)anyway I know he is trying and I trying too. The last two days have been ok but kinda distant, I've desided not to hound him with 20 mil questions and let life just take it course.I know with all my hounding I'm sure that I can't make it easier for any of us.
Well I'm confused on the way he is acting...
He's distant and just kinda here, is this the withdrawl thing that he is going threw or what and what can I do? I feel sad because I feel that I should be the light in his life and I don't want to say anthing to him because I know I'll get out of control because of the way I feel.
Our Ann is next week and our children are going to their grandparents for the weekened, so we will be alone but I'm not sure how to act or what to plan. Should I leave it up to him or what?
HELP!!!!!!!!!!

My IC suggested that we discuss it prior to the day. It was our 20th ann. We did this and we made our plans together in advance. This way there was no disappointment on either side. We kept it very simple.