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Hey need some ideas?? Steve Harley suggested that I send my H some messages on his cellphone ...Light not pursuing messages (I mean text messaging not voice mail)
He suggested one (I am in plan A but little contact with H who's A finally saw daylight on our seperation)
Hey was just thinking of u, have a nice day!
One of H biggest needs is admiration so any other ideas for messages will be fantastic...Love to ya all
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Joined: Sep 2001
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Yes, a note that don't need a response but telling H that he is on your mind. "I wish u could be here to help xxxx out ... missing u".
-RH-
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hi there wrungout... hope the counseling with stever and the light pursuing is working... it seems I have to light pursue too... my h has big admiration needs... I have trouble finding something admirable in him lately... augh!
Oh well... hope things are going better.. this long waiting game is too long! right@ hugs, HONEY
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How about something like "just thought about you and it made me smile, thanks!" Or "miss your smile"
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Hey thanx everyone that was a great help sort of plan sending H one every couple of weeks wont get a reply but hey who cares! have H father staying a couple of nites & had to tell him that this has now come out as an A, he took it suprisingly well but he did say where does this OW live I would like to meet her now what sort of a response was that I couldn't believe it... but didnt say so I did tell him that i was working on myself & working things thru that i know i made a lot of mistakes which i guess will go back to H if thats a LB well it's too late i'd had a glass of wine & it all spilled out! But i did say i'm not sitting here pining fro H.Oh well all I can do is keep plan Aing my but off I guess but is very hard. H only contacts me by text messaging if he wants something (like legal stuff) & when i reply never get anything back i couldnt believe i sent hi a text a couple of months ago about my mum having cancer diagnosed & he never even replied to that. Oh well must get off now catchya you great folk later sorry i havent contributed much lately but have been struggling with my own demons...
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