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WW and I are somewhat in "recovery" after her EA/PA. I have always had a high need for security/reassurance due to some childhood issues (sexual abuse and divorce of parents). Since the discovery of WW's A my need for security/reassurance has been magnified. I keep LBing needing more. Wife says she can't give me as much as I need. We are in this "rat on a treadmill" funk. I need, she can't give me what I need. I want to change, realizing that I have LB her about this for years and am worse now. She wants to fulfill the need but can't seem to give enough. We are both frustrated. Me for needing too much and frustrated at her for not give enough. She is frustrated because it is just not in her to give as much as I need. What do we do?
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