Hello,

I am wondering why I am here. what I hope to accomplish. It would appear my H is not having a, b/c we are now divorced, for a few months, but instead of still being with the oW, he moved away and went to live with his family. Ha! He is having a with his own family? I mean, he would rather be with them then in a M, or A
They always were mean to me, talking and doing things- mean things-behind my back, or to my face, but it was okay with him at least he didn't defend me or fight them for me. Now they have apparently convinced him to divorc and he did! WEll there was OW but I think his was exit aff and not about "love" or soulmates or anythjing like that only about getting out of this Terribel Marrage" and move closer to them.
We were marryed many years, and now this. Does any one have any advise? should i hang on hoping he will come out of the fog? or is this impossible situation? I wish I could afford to ask SH these ?

Thank you anyone.

Hi NNT; (Cool handle, BTW)

Let's see now, how long ago did he leave? Have you spoken? what does he say? any talk of "the future"? Any indication he might want to try again?

I'd suggest you read a lot of what is on this site; Articles, Q&A, maybe some of the books.

If you give us some more information, we'll be able to help you better...

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Spacecase:
<strong>Hi NNT; (Cool handle, BTW)</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Um, thanks! spacy!] And thanks for responding
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> how long ago did he leave? Have you spoken? what does he say? any talk of "the future"? Any indication he might want to try again?</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">He left over a year ago, D filed by him immediately, finallized a few months ago and no never talked of reconciling always just wanted D. at first I thought, yes, ow, A, yadda, yadda.....

It'll run its course like they do. But now he, moved thousands of miles away to foo. Away from me and from ow so I think she was not the issue at all just out of our M. That is what he always said, "I don't want to be m anymore. I never heard, I love her or anything.

He would not discuss conselling claims it wouldn't work.

[quote[<strong>If you give us some more information, we'll be able to help you better...</strong>[/QUOTE]
Spacecase, I have read all the articles and have been here many months Nothing compares to our case! Veryh unusual to me.

As I said i wish i could concel with SH, but can't afford it, and I am very confused.

Is this still worth waiting for this to end? He seems to be sure of his future and it isn't with me. What am I waiting to end? it appears A has ended, and he ran to FOO, not to me to mend his "wounded" self.

Thaks for trying.