Many of you have seen my posts here or in the Recovery section, but briefly, W has been having an PA/EA with a co-worker. He is a supervisor in another division of their workplace. We have tried to be in recovery but W has continued to have contact with OM. I have threatened to contact OM's boss to let him know about A in order to have him help accountable. I have chickened out several times. I am afraid that OM now knows I won't do it and that gives him confidence. I am afraid that it I do tell, both OM and W may get fired and that may push them closer together. Any advice or has anyone else experienced this situation where you did expose A?