I am sorry to all I have hurt, but I am a simple person trying to save my marriage, I am not a fancy talker or writer, I thought this forum was for support, I do not need anyone to pitty me, my wife and I need support. I do not put myself above other people. I am sorry that I don't have any answers for the people who are on here. I truly wish that I could take the pain away.

To bout and hold, I am sorry if I've hurt you in anyway. Your situations are similiar to mine and all I'm looking for is a little guidance.

I am sorry that I can't answer anything because this is new to me. I am sorry that I may come out false, but trusting people is hard for me at this time. But I will open myself up if anyone cares and you can e-mail me direct at sgwhitm@msn.com if you want.

Again I am sorry if I have hurt anyone here.

Hello Dred,

I do not know the situation you are posting about, but I would just like to say that it takes a big person to appologize like that.

I know this is a support forum, I was offered a lot of good advise here a couple of years ago and I hope you find what you need from the many people on this forum.

Regards and good luck with your wife and marriage,

Lolipop

Hi,

I read a few of your posts on GQII (did search all the other topics) and I just don't see what you have to apologize for.

While your story has its own unique circumstances, your pain is quite common here at MB. You and your W have both sought out couseling that is good but your recovery is not at the same levels. That is typical.

May I ask what you have read from MB books and concepts even the emotional needs questionnaire? Can you give Steve or Jennifer a call?

These A thingy's can really put a damper on our lives so depression is one of the bi-products that affect either the WS,BS or both.

Rant and vent all you need, it will help relieve some of the internal stress. But don't stop posting or talking. See my post count? As you can see, I do a 'lot' of posting. Because I am a nice person? Nah.... more like therapy for me. I learn a lot and also helping others where and when I can helps me heal and keep focused. Like a double blessing or a double edged sword blow to the A. Yea..... down with all A's!!!

Let us know how you are doing, ok? Haven't met a true MBer that I didn't like...... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

take care,
L.