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Will someone please answer me? please? my post is on page 1 ty.
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Cathy,
I am sorry that you are so torn apart and the only comfort I can give is that I know how you feel. I know that you were sweet enough to respond to my post and I know that your in time of need....Does your husband show remorse for what he has done? Have you forgiven him for what he has done? Have you tried MCounseling? Once trust is broken it is hard to regain it with my husband he will do great for a while but then we get back into that same cycle....eventually I had to break it....I believed my vows when I took them and I believe that there is an evil force that puts temptation our way but I think that if you continually put your energy into someone who is and has wasted your energy that obviously is a beautiful heart (from all your concern for others) than you will miss out on showing the rest of the world the good you can do. I love my husband more than anything in this world i would give my life for him but I was spiralling downhill when we were together....i started doubting my worth and being hateful....angry and jealous all the time and when all I wanted was respect, love and devotion he couldn't comply.....he would get frustrated and yell at me like this is my fault so like I told you I left.....and where it was hard to breath without him everyday I am breathing....we are just seperated I have hopes that this will change his ways with or without me and while the thought of another woman reeping the benifits of my pain at least he will have learned that you can't treat women that way especially a woman who stood by him through good times and bad. Gosh sometimes even after all he has put me through I still wonder if I could have done something else. But in my head and my heart I know that by leaving I did! I pray for you and your confusion.....get yourself right mentally and physically and spiritually....sometimes it is better to realize that there is someone making a way for us...even in the darkest of days! SORRY SO LONG ...GUESS I HAVE A LOT TO SAY Natalie
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