TY,
for the under standing! I was told to come in here and just vent, and then also ask some questions and i got a very strong reply back from JDmac1. now it kinda makes me feellike why come in to vent now, sure can't handle being ripped. but again ty u are sweet.

ITD_45,

I am so sorry you took my post as ripping you apart. I assure you, ripping you, was not my intention.

All, I hoped you would see in that post was that someone has to make the first move. In that post you said you came back from a 2 week vacation and your H was treating you great. You doubted his motives. You asked for opinions and I gave them.

You also mentioned your H dragging his feet on calling to set up an appointment with a IC. I suggested you make the appointment for him and go with him if need be.

You stated some things about snoop software. I gave you my point of view on that as well.

None of the advice I gave was meant to hurt you. I stated that at the end of my post.

Cathy, I am sorry. I will stay away from your posts in the future. There are others on the site with much better capabilities, when it comes to telling one only what they like to hear. I'm sorry.

jd

inthedark,

You asked for advice and JD complied with your wishes and took the time and energy to give you his insight. Please try to be a little more gracious when someone tries to help you. His heart was in the right place and I think you are overreacting by accusing him of ripping you. He did no such thing.

When you ask for advice, you have to be prepared for advice that you may not like and handle it graciously, otherwise people around here won't bother anymore. Sometimes, the advice that bothers us the most is the BEST advice!

I should also add that JD is no newcomer to MB and usually has some pretty good advice, so I wouldn't be so quick to dismiss the proffered hand of an oldtimer, especially when you are a newbie. I think you owe him an apology.