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Secret code...and...remember, you hold the key to the door to narnia!! (can't remember, wasn't it via a third nipple or something??) LOL!!
Glad to hear I was off on the "victim" theory. I forgot that you still maintained a life outside the marraige and that for him that's part of his beef. H and I never went anywhere or did much and I was very resentful of that fact. Very seriously just DID NOT occur to me to get off my lazy tushy and make plans to do stuff. I just knew I wasn't having fun and it must be his fault cause I had fun when I was with other people <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />
I'm crossing my fingers and all my eyes (makes you wonder, doesn't it??) that they keep your appointment!
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Sorry Lance, your posting here is strictly forbidden...as is sarcasm, general tomfoolery and third nipples. So...we won't tell if you won't <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
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hehe... thats funny... okay bye... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> jk. i had to laugh about the Narnia thing. i forgot what it was from? btw what it DH, i was reading a post and someone mentioned a DH... dishonored Hubby, Dorky Hubby, Disloyal Hubby, Dummy Hubby... i could go on for hours... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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btw Layli, hope you and H had a good time. (see, me learning lingo.) Call me when you get home. I will be home all night. Might go to bed early tho... quiet tired... ya know... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />
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Layli,
I am sure everyone ones to know how the evening went. I hope all went well. I noticed you didn't post when you got home last night.
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
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Sorry it took me awhile to get back. I still can't log in here from my computer and WH was home from work so of course I couldn't use his. He was playing. Anniversary went ok. Some strange fog talk. He came home and told me happy anniversary, he read a card I had for him, very plain, man was that hard picking one out. We went to dinner and when we got home I asked him what he wanted to do now. He started crying, I guess he hurt his back the night before and it was really bothering him. So I asked him what I could do and he said it hurt bad enough he needed a shot. So I changed out of my nice clothes and took him to the emergency room. When I was helping him get up to leave he hugged me and said," Sorry this isn't the romantic night I had planned." I held back from saying it couldn't have been too romantic unless he was calling it off with OW. So I took him to ER, we got home and I helped him get comfortable. He hugged me really tight and said, "Thanks for taking such good care of me." We both took yesterday off work and I was woke by a phone call that he answered, it was his "friend" in CA. The other one from the game that is married but thinks she is in love with my WH. He explained that he didn't call because her husband got angry when he called and that his "friends" on game suggested he call her house and pretend he was selling feminine products so husband would let her talk. Yes, that is the mentality I am working with. Thanks for all your support. Getting ready to head for my Mom's in NV with WH tomorrow. Just for an overnight stay. By the way, the whole third nipple thing is from Friends. Chandler had one and it did open the secret door to narnia. I am assuming the things WH said were just fog talk. If anything else bizzare happens I will post. His appt with Steve got moved to 6am Monday. He is going to be chipper for that call but maybe Steve can make some headway. Love you guys, Layli
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"feminine products"??????? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> Uhh...ladies, how many phone solicitations do you get for feminine products? LOL! Sorry, Layli...that was just too priceless to pass up.
I wish things had been better for you on your anniversary. I'm glad it wasn't worse tho.
Is your H taking a computer with him to your mom's or is he going to be EQ deprived? If he is going to be without I would expect him to be a bit on the grouchy side. Withdrawal is a *itch.
Hang in there, girl...you've got all of us rooting for you.
VL
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