As most of you know, my former name was cloudy day, I lost my pass stuff and couldn't recover it. I have been in a long plan a and have an understanding with my H that as of labor day, its me or her. I am afraid that he will continue with things as they are unless I do something. He expects me to let his affair continue endefinitly. WHen we last talked of this he picked labor day as the "big Day" I didn't think i could make it that long, well i have, no LB (well not much) I have met his many needs EN SF Financial, you name it i have been there done that. The truth is i can't do any better. I know they talk daily, (HATE CELL PHONES) and probaby see eachother as well. And for my sanity i really need to have a letter in place to give him when this comes up this weekend. I intend to ask him if he is going to honor is promise to me. I know that he is going to evade and manuvour around me and i need help. This is my plan. I will listen. and say, I have known this conversation was coming. I have thought about our marriage and life together. This is your choice. Based on your choice this is what i need to do. I will then hand him the letter and leave for the night.
Dearest Shane,
I love you. However, we have reach a point in our marriage that is not acceptable to me or our family. We agreed that as of labor day you would have made a decision. Since you have not, I have. You need to move out and take care of your issues, and yourself. I need you to move out to protect the love and respect i have for you as we will always be parents together and i will have to work with you in this. This is not what i want but the alternative is unacceptable as well. I would like to have the kids this weekend. I hope to see you at your sons first football game. If you would like our children to spend the night with you. I will have their things with me. Then if we could agree to every other weekend for now, and of course you can call them or arange through your mother to see them. Please understand that i am doing this to protect the love and respect i have for you, yet i need to protect myself as well.
Love and prayer for you,
sc
