Dear Relate, I noticed you are using my story around here to point out 'bad' advice. I can't stop you writing whatever you please, but I'd like to point out that the people here are very supportive and knowledgeable. They have got me through numerous tough situations and I very much appreciate their advice.

I would prefer it if you didn't use me as your weapon to fight others on this website.

I'm sorry you feel like you have been attacked on this site, but if you put your opinion out there, you've got to allow others to (respectfully) disagree.