That's a new thread, continuing my old one from
http://www.marriagebuilders.com/cgi-bin/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic;f=37;t=019358;p=4The only news is that I'm pretty tired for the last 10 days already or so... After the last big bust-up and the stressful weekend last week (see old thread) I'm sort of in limbo, can't get myself to plan B, can't do a real good plan A neither, simply, I eat breathe and work somehow, sleep in a different bedroom, spend time as much as I can with my daughter, ignore my wife pretty much and am being ignored by her even more, and that's pretty much all there is to say really.
Whether WW is still in contact with OM or not - possibly and is likely the case. Don’t have any black-on-white proof. They both seem to have learnt the lessons how to evade snooping. Judging by my WW's reactions and what she has to say (in the rare event when she is speaking to me), I can't detect anything different. Does that all mean she is still in contact with OM? Maybe, maybe not. Do I care? Less and less, actually.
If someone else were writing this post, I would know exactly what to answer him: pull yourself together man, do either plan A or B, talk to a IC, make yourself happy, whatever.
I try, but... I'm just so fed up, drained, exhausted and tired. Will get a hot curry tonight, get myself psised on a nice wine, and cycle in the parks with my daughter tomorrow. Let's see if that helps.
Have a good weekend everybody.
