Well my friend said to me the other day guess who came up here (to see a digger driver that was working at their place) my H he got talking to friends H & there was a sporting event planned this weekend for golden oldies (H is 49) H said he was keen my friend said to me H will be trying to gain acceptance back in the village.
Anyway everything was fine but last nite friend was in the bar & they were trying to organise this thing for the next morning, they couldn't get hold of H & the girl that works for him was there they asked her if she knew what was going on she replied I get told nothing except when i am working & thats it (friend said H employee sounded really fed up)they tried to ring H home from the bar but only got answerphone. Someone then said H had said he now wouldn't be going to the event because he had told them that the digger was going to be working at his farm (friend said to this guy this was crap cause he is stil working the digger on their place) Anyway friend & her H get home from the bar & get a phone call from H saying he would not now be able to go as he was going away so he & OW have gone away 4 the weekend, H said when he rang friend that he had not heard the phone ringing as he was watching TV! well as long as i lived with H he never had a problem with not hearing the phone while watching TV! & anyway why would he find it necessary to even tell my friend that?
I actually know that H was not at home when friend was at the bar trying to contact him as I had to drive past H place to get home from work & his van was not in the drive! What is this guy up to why is he telling everyone weird conflicting stories?? This is a pair of aliens that decided to go public with their A & H (it's no one elases buisness kind of attitude) telling everyone just how happy he was so anyone have any ideas on this.
H was apparently really keen to go to this event & my guess is that as it was OW weekend off she has insisted they r going away poor H I hope he's pissed off & that they r LB like crazy I am going blue holding my breath waiting for this to happen. H told someone the other day he has stopped going out in the village now because he is sick of peoples comments!
Was also interesting that H rang our son who is in the Uk last week, h has had no contact with son since March, never once picked up the phone 2 see how is was (because of H guilt I guess) anyway I asked son what day he rang & sure enough it was fathers day over here but not where son is. Son said I never wished him happy fathers day cause as far as i'm concerned he's not acting like a father at the moment H never mentioned fathers day but son knew that it was fathers day here. H has had no conversations with either of our boys about OW except when he first rang our eldest son & said he was going to be staying up in the same area as our son but would be going to a motel as he was bringing OW with him, that it had been just a friendship but was now more than that....H seems to have put me in plan B all on his own cause unless he has to contact me for something he needs I hear nothing...OK this has made me feel better by writing on here it probably makes no sense to anyone on here......Have a great weekend everyone..
<small>[ September 08, 2002, 04:20 AM: Message edited by: Perfect_day ]</small>
