The Life of the Other Woman
By Mari

She MEBEE the skankiest, meanest woman you can ever meet, MEBEE you know her, she rips out your husbands heart and is his side feck.

She is a selfesh woman, unlike yourself. No one admires her. She's a dirty little hidden secret. Her life is dismal, disrespectful and disgusting. She is a fool and know's it, yet she "can't help it".

She's, a teacher, a nurse, a retail manager, a stripper and basically a no-paid hoor. You may know her, but if you knew what she did on the side you'd kick her stinkin [censored].

She can't tell you about what she's doing behing your back because she is selfesh and would rather go on fecking your husband, than lose you as a so called "friend".

She's Fat, filthy and pretty much disgusting, she is committed to meeting her needs and feck anyone that gets in her way.She like's being used by her man, it make's her feel "special".

He's humped and dumped her only to hump her again yet she still can't get it through her empty head that he is using her.

She would kill, like a rabid dog jes to spend one holiday or MEBEE walk hand in hand with MM in public. But alas, her only "connection" is the phone or internet, used soley to arrange the next boink.

Nope, she's not like the normal woman, for she is a skank!

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What really ugly words .... I am sorry your head is so full of really ugly thoughts. It must be hard to be with yourself sometimes.

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I'm sorry you feel so much hate. I understand it, but I don't agree with your opinions. I hope you are able to find help and work through your pain.

You have a right to your anger at the OW, but also there should be anger rightly placed with your WS. It took them both. My heart goes out to you. Just a little thought for you--the one who suffers the most with anger and not being able to forgive is YOU! Don't give her or your WS that power to negatively effect your life. Post all here with questions and seek help dealing with all of this, you will be happy you did in the end.

Sheesh! You know, this is really sad. VERY sad. If there was anyone that was in a crisis, TRNHRD would be the one! Maybe if TRYNHRD would talk to one of the Harleys, it might help. Would definitely by well worth the money spent! Such hate! PLEASE get some therapy.

Are you THE Mari from Canofun.com?

Nah, couldn't be. Sure, she says the same things, spells the same way, spews the same nasty venom; but it could never be.

Over and over they say at scarleta and canofun that what they do has nothing to do with being betrayed.

The history on this poster shares a devistating betrayal. After all, if they've made it, they celebrated their 28th wedding anniversary in August.

This posters husband had an affair lasting over 15 months, and she seemed to be shattered by it all - their 4 children, their life together, and how even though recovery has been going on for quite a long period of time she is still crushed.

Mari on scarleta is a bitter and vile woman who claims never to have been betrayed. She just does it for the fun of it.

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Um, is there a therapist in the house?

I also agree that this is very sad. My H's OW broke my heart, but I would not classify her with any of these words. I would suggest counseling.

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YOU NEED COUNSELLING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The other woman in my life is a mother, a daughter, a sister, a friend - in fact she is much like me.

We differ only in our moral convictions and our consciences. I could never do to anyone what she has done to me. But I don't hate her - I hate what she and my H did. I hate that she didn't care what it was doing to me and to my children.

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In fact she's no different than my H, the man I love. The only difference is she isn't married to me.

I hope you find peace Mari. What you wrote is such a sad way to spend your days. Your hatred will consume you if you don't get some help.

Wait a minute. This anger, hate and frustration is seen often. Maybe not in those exact words but still felt in every d/d event.

Did I feel that way? Yes. Was I hurt and at the time thought it was beyond belief? Yes?

The difference? Is that in time I came to realize that an OW is an OW is an OW. Unless she chooses to change herself she will always be an OW and there is nothing I can do about that. Now the WS has the option to fall into that same wretched cycle. His choice, not mine.

My choice? I have the choice to allow them to make me stay in the painful cycle of A abuse or I can choose to break free of that cycle, get my life back (plan A/B as needed) and put safety, love and normalancy back into my life.

Mari or anyone else in this mode. It is temporary. Your pain and anguish is real but only you have the choice to allow yourself to remain there.

The OW I dealt with deserves the name PBR. Whether she has gone on to her next victim has not been verified, but if I should ever learn of it, I will not keep it a secret. NO other family should have to go through what we went through. I will not create trouble, but exposing it in a legal and moral way is my responsibility. I will not be one of those 'friends' who just watches the A unfold like a soap opera and then go on with my life. It was too painful to watch a family spiral downward and the BS kept in the dark for sooo long.

Mari, you have choices. Make wise ones. Your life is too short to live with unnecessary pain and anger.

L.

I won't even begin to hazard a guess why this was posted by trynhard... I did some research on her posts and this seems very unlike what she usually posts.

In doing so, I came upon a link for "Affairs of Secrecy," another TOW-type site in one of her old posts... I registered for membership to be able to read in the "members only" forum... did some digging and found that someone had posted this EXACT posts...

...not sure if that is trynhard's user name there... or she copied it and posted it here...

fyi,
Cali

Well, who ever it is, I have one thing to say....SPELLCHECK!