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Is it ever a good idea to beg?
#1028033 09/10/02 04:11 PM
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I'm within a couple of days of getting a Divorce from my WW. The last few months have been a marathon on PI's, lawyers, counselors, potential break throughs and mostly disappointments.

She feels bad about the affair but says that things have become too tangled to be repaired. I still love her and would like to work this out but it just doesn't seem to be in the cards. The biggest problem IMO has been that's she's refused to leave her job (where she sees OM everyday) Should I just sign off the Divorce?
Re: Is it ever a good idea to beg?
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Your subject title was "Is it ever a good idea to beg?"

ONLY if someone has a gun to your head. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

Your question in your text was different:
"Should I just sign off the divorce?"

ONLY if you want to.

You can NOT sign off on the divorce ... and, also NOT beg.

It's not one or the other.

In my opinion.

Pepper <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />
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#1028035 09/10/02 05:17 PM
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Like Pepper, your subject title led me to expect something much different.

Stating you don't want this divorce, you love her, you believe it could be possible to repair your marriage is not the same as begging.

However, you are right that if she continues working with the OM, the chances your marriage will recover without difficultly are decreased.

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