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Just received confirmation from my Internet Spy software that OM has made contact with her through yahoo messenger. Told her to get her cell phone. Not sure how to react or what to do.
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TORO:
The trick is NOT 2 react!!
Don't tell her about your snooping, in case you have 2 do it again someday.
But consider NOT snooping. You know the A is going on, so snooping will only confirm that and make you crazy. It's a lot easier 2 conduct a good plan A if you're not worrying about what's being said or thinking about what you've found out.
Hang in there, this will be hard.
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Do NOTHING but the very best Plan A you can. Do not confront her (this IS an email FROM him TO her with no response from her yet)and you really didn't expect him to be honest with you, did you? Well heck yes,,, sure you did. I naively thought the OW would be honest with me too but found out very quickly, I was wrong.
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Do nothing right now. Keep snooping ONLY if you can keep it secret. Plan A. Plan A. Plan A...
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