Things are going okay...of course I still think about it, and of course fiance would like to put it all behind him.

Here is my problem. Every once in a while I do ask about her, mainly to see if she is having luck in finding another job. He doesn't speak with her anymore (except occasionally when they have to discuss work) but hears workplace gossip, etc.

Today he told me that he heard she has a lead on a job. I said something to the effect of "I just want the wench outta there" and he said something like "we'll see." I then asked him, "why can't you ever bash her?!? Why can't you just say 'Yeah the b!tch needs to go!'" Just say something mean about her, to make me feel better? And he said, well, what good would that do, besides everyone makes mistakes.

I just sometimes feel that when he doesn't talk down about her, it's almost as if he is defending her. I know I am being a bit paranoid, wanting to hear him bash her...but is this really a crazy way for me to think?? He is TOO KIND of a person, and I just feel he should worry more about my feelings, than protecting her reputation (which is not all that good). I know this isn't a healthy way for me to think, but I also don't think I am crazy for thinking this way...any opinions/suggestions?

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