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I spoke to Steve H. on Thursday, two weeks after he spoke with my H for the full hour.
Didn't know what to expect from Steve on Thursday. Thought he was going to tell me to throw in the towel but as usual, it was an excellent appointment. He told me that he doesn't want me to just hope for my marriage...Steve's advice is going to get me there.
His advice? STICK TO Plan A. After speaking to Topie last night (thanks hon) in my emotionally charged state of mind, she recommended I do this so that everyone who's following my sordid tale doesn't keep rolling their eyes.
He also told me that if I feel like I'm enabling his affair, then I'm doing a good plan A.
Help me friends, to stay on course.
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Terri He also told me that if I feel like I'm enabling his affair, then I'm doing a good plan A.
That's just about blood-curdling. I've never heard it put that way. I understand it, probably agree with it, but, I wouldn't have thought to phrase it that way. I'll support you in Plan A. Mostly cuz I couldn't get out of it myself without doing it longterm <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> .
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Terrified, Been there ... I even thought that SH is a maniac that like me to suffer. I know one thing ... he will "gauge" your LB$. As long as you still have some left and not under the water ... he will push you to the limit !!! that is his job !, to save your M. He let me to closed the door for now (plan B) after he detects my LB$ is closed to nil and my WW still in la la land. I told him I do not want to wait and this could go for a long time. I am glad that you had talked to him ... we need professional help when our effort seems futile. Keep us posted ... vent in here <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> -RH-
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