My WW and I discussed over the weekend the idea of seperation. She doesnt think she can "deal" with everything having to see me every night. I told her I was not moving out and she agreed that she would move out instead. I know she still has contact with OM, who lives 1500 miles away. I am so scared that as soon as we seperate, it will just mean that they will have a better chance to get together. Those thoughts are all I think about lately. I'm really not sure I can handle knowing they were together. I have started on anti-depressants and I dont think they have kicked in yet. She tells me she doesnt know what she wants, that her and the OM can never work, since he lives so far away. So why have the EA anyway? She says she's is not sure she can get back those feelings for me again. Trying to do a good plan A but the thoughts and images wake me every night. It has been tough and they havent even been together yet. Not sure how I will handle it if they are. Not even sure I want to know if they do. I just keep hoping that this will run its course and she'll come back and try to work things out.