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Orchid, Ty for the responce, Yes i did blow up and do need to say i a'm sorry for that. But u are right as far as to let him know where i stand and how uneasy he is making me feel. But what he will do with that is when i tell him he is making me feel un easy he will say how a'm i making u feel that way, and when i tell him he will say that is not so, as he has said that to me several times before, when i told him that. So what then do i do? i can't beat it out of him to tell me the truth. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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No you can't beat it out of him..... so don't even try. Just let him know you are hurting and sad. Say you can't explain your pain but it is really there. If he gets angry, let him walk away with it. Don't expect him to react well, just let him know. You will find some relief even if it is just a little bit.
Don't try to give him all the answers. Then he doesn't have anything left to wonder about. Can you work on that?
L.
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