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#1028796 09/17/02 06:53 AM
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WS's fog lifted for a weekend. For the first time since D-day and separation day WS left his armoured shield the OW behind in their new adopted town to come and visit his folks alone, alone, alone.

He flew in on Friday evening and took the kids along with him. This is a great victory as WS comes from a rural community and I am sure that he was scared as hell for the reception he would receive from the community.

Well, everything went according to Gods plan. He showered our children with love and affection. My DD's cannot stop talking about how loving and caring daddy was. On Saturday eldest D went out and 3yo was left with her dad. My SIL said he spend the whole Saturday afternoon cradeling her in his arms. He even worried because 9yo was staying away too long. This is the H that I know not the "alien" that he has become.

9yo asked him why OW did not come along and he said that she does not like the town. Too boring.

There was no hogging of the phone either. OW phoned him once the Saturday and once the Sunday. Normally they would be on the phone a zillion times a day.

SIL, spoke to him, no long sermon just a short message. We love you and we care about you, ginnyf and the children. Remember we will always be there for you. Ginnyf said "If God could forgive 70 x 7 who am I not to forgive. He said "I was a good women" YA YA YA.

He also met up with a FWS, told this guy he did not want to listen to any "****". Well FWS said he was only there to support him and they apparantly had a wonderful Sunday afternoon together.

Well, on Monday he left again to be with OW. Children is happy, I am happy about the turn of events. He now knows that there is people who cares for him.

I phoned him after he dropped the children on Sunday to thank him for making children so happy.

Well, now we need to see what happens.

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dear GinnyF
that is great stuff. reality has moved in but
the brain cannot process it yet. so give the
H time time time. "if you resist events you
resist the whole universe" deepak chopra"
let the river runs its course. There is a reason
and a season for everything.
It is in fact in Gods plan.
hold on.must ring off


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