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Well, WW didn't mention the note I typed to her last night. I know she saw it because it isn't where it was this morning. Not sure if that is good or bad. I guess I wasn't looking for a answer, just something for her to think about.
She is leaving in the morning for her interview, need to make sure I get up and tell her Good Luck !!
Didn't LB all day, wooo hooo
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sounds like you are doing better
one other piece of advice is not to expect much from your WW
For a long time, I felt that the best Plan A in the world with no LBs would "win" her back but it is not my choice but hers.
she may come around...eventually or not at all
while we all hope our WS come around, Plan A is about you
keep in mind that in addition to trying to meet whatever needs she'll let you and not LBing, you want to change yourself for the better and see if she notices the changes (without you blantly telling her.)
It may take months for her to see/trust that the changes are real and for you and not just an attempt for you to get her back and then revert to your old ways.
Patience.
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