Hello All,

I need a little support here....It's been a long time since I've posted.

WS has contacted OM after 2 months, 23 days of no contact. i have been Plan-A full tilt since DD. With some LBig along the way. WS left her job at the same work location In June 02 and as far as I can tell she has not had contact. Except for the last few days. Ya all know the signs, not making eye contact, very angery...

The W moved out of our bedroom about 8 mos ago. I started to bother me lately. I asked her last week why she didn.t want to sleep with me. She said "i just do not want to" (i know now that ths was big LB for her). And now the she has had contact again I am thinking that this is the end of our M.

I talked to her tonight about what we had agreed on in the beginning: to be honest with each other. she agreed that we had. then she asks me about bills. Money is a very big EN for her. So big in fact that see contacts the OM and he gives her money (Something she does not admit to anymore). I have been working extra hours each week to meet this EN. But i snoop to protect myself i guess, or i do it to hurt myself, I am beginning to wonder.

With a of DD 8/00 looks like i have been at his too long

Any comments feed back?

thanks...i needed the vent

It doesn't sound like you are having very much fun right now.

I really don't know your story and it's not fair to ask you to repeat it. I do have some questions for you, what did you find out about her contact with OM. What is she doing/ saying with him?

How is your life with her otherwise? Are you in counseling or making progress at all? Or did you think you were until you found continued contact?

I hope you are OK today.

SS

<small>[ September 19, 2002, 03:46 PM: Message edited by: still seeking ]</small>