Hi there was just reading another post that you had replied to & you mentioned that; quote "My H did an excellent Plan A after I gave him the papers, and he didn't have much hope at that point, but it was still effective on me."
I was wondering if you would be interested in explaining why he didn't have much hope at that time; what he actually did to get your attention so to speak! & any other info. My H is still full on with his A & avoiding me like the plague honestly it's just amazing why is he avoiding me like this...He totally ignores any cell ph text messages i send him (steve Harleys suggestion ie admiring text messages) not sure if i should send him them when i know he's not with OW or if like this weekend I should send him one when I know he's away with her.

This is all so weird to me I haven't heard from him in about a month he never contacts me for anything general it's only if he needs something done legally. This guy lives 1km up the road from me OW lives in between 500mtrs away...

I am really finding things tough this week & I don't know why I am feeling like this....

The only time I had a reply from H was when i sent an email about my mum having cancer it was of course a serious email but I added some very humourus stuff no relationship stuff, & he replied! a very brief email, so i waited about 2 weeks then emailed him back saying thanks for the email some more funny stuff & some very admiring stuff (not clingy but would probably have pulled at his heart strings a bit) was expecting a reply from him I thought this would give him the chance of telling me how this OW had been just a friendship but was now much more than that BUT NOTHING NO REPLY can you shed any light on this....& also anyone else that happens along here please feel free to add your thoughts on this sorry to have rambled on so...Thanx