2 Days I found out that my husband of 5 years was having an affair with another man I can't talk to my family about it because they will say leave him and my vows i said 5 years ago mean everything to me and i still love him we have never any real problems but we are young and lived in a small town that did not have much and have recently moved to a bigger town with a whole bunch of differnt people and exciting life style i just need someone to talk to does the pain ever go away how do you get rid of the picture' in your head every time i close my eyes i see them together how do i get over another man more or less the affair itself I know that i want and I am the only one who can help me get past this i just need god to give me the streghth
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Hi and welcome to MB.

Have you read the basic concepts section located at the top of this page? You mentioned that your H is having an A with a man? Well this is not the first instance that we have heard of this here. The principals covered above will help. It won't fix your problem but give you a starting point so that you can work on your healing process.

Read the above and then come back and let us know your viewpoints.

take care,
L.

Aew77 Hi,
Ia'm sorry to hear the pain u are going through! I really can't give u advice now as i really don't know what to say. But i can tell u that u have found a great place here, as all the people in here are so careing and willing to help u as much as needed.Keep coming back often and post as many times as u feel u need to, We are all here for 1 a nother. u will be in my thoughts and prayers Cathy. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />