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one thing and he said he didn't understand where I was coming from and that it was silly.
My husband is a local Class A delivery driver (home everyday) but on Thurs he has to drive 250 miles N to make some deliveries where he met a women at one of his stops and had an EA. I know one of the things they say to do is to cut off contact 100% with the OW and my H says he has but I really don't want him going up N anymore just incase he "bumps" into her or gets lonely up there and decides to call and chat with her. I told him I really don't like him going up there and he said that is silly that he doesn't see or talk to her anymore and that if for some reason he were to run into her it wouldn't mean anything and he would avoid her, but it still bothers me. How can I trust him after all that has happened. The problem is is I know he can't just quit making this Thurs run because that is major overtime he gets and we need the money so I have been trying to get him to look for another job, (we have been talking about this before this happened) but he is showing very little enthusiasm about looking. I dread Thurs from Sun up untill he gets home Thurs night and I just hate it. I don't know what to do.
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Maiadab,
Looking for another job does not have to be an awful or dreded experience. My H was looking for another job a couple of years ago, when I tried to push him and talked about the bad things at his job he had it made him uninterested in finding a new job. When I turned it around and helped him by showing him interesting help wanted ads in our Sunday paper, he got excited. He eventually found a job much better than the one he had.
The OW my H had lives about 40 miles from our home, but only 5 minutes from his fathers' house. Our agreement is(and this may seem silly) he is not allowed on that entire side of town unless I am with him or he has his cell phone on him so I can call him a thousand times. I don't think he would ever have anything to do with her again(she is quite a lunitic), but I am still uneasy about him being anywhere near her.
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