In brief I started plan A and told WH that I don't want him going up N. on his Thurs run (local delivery driver) because that is where OW lives. He swears he has cut all contact off with her but I still don't want him going up there in case the "bumps" into her. He thinks I am being silly by saying I don't want him going up there.

I have been trying to motivate him into finding another job so he doesn't have to go up N. but he is not trying at all to find another job. Should that bother me or am I over reacting since he says he has cut off all ties with OW?

Maia