Hi,
just read your responce ty for replying back. The reaction in my H was about 6 months apart not yrs. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> Sorry if i said that wrong. But what did u mean i have my answer? u mean by yes he probably was cheating. Oh and eariler tonight i was doing a little snooping of my own after he went to bed in the files and folders and i came up with alot of things. 1 thing i saw was this mike jackson@ww.loveme then when i opened it i saw this,it said string with a square next to it then said new day7@concentric.net what ever that is do u know? Then i saw in the files and folders net meeting it had his name our phone number address and town we live in <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> Not really sure tho what net meeting is. Also i saw this to in files and folders mikejackson@love then beside that it said emlove{1} When i opened it all it showed was a heart . See where my suspicion comes from amoung outher things i have told u. ps.... All this came up when i put love letters in on the files and folders. Oh and u ask me if i was in plan a no not yet, but i can't talk to my husband he either says i don't know what u are talking about when i just tried to share my feelings on what was bothering me or he gets mad at me and it starts a fight. So i guess i just learned to just shut up. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

Hi Cathy
I have never heard of those web sites, but I tried to get into concentric.net and it brought up over 170 hits. There was anything from a study of Daniel to Mariah Carey songs to software for teachers! At the end of the list there were a few personal web sites, most of which had to do with art or recipes. If you want to take a look, type in concentric.net in the search line and see what it brings up. Then I looked up Mike Jackson and found about 70 links. Anyway...I think you have every right to be suspicious, I know I would be! Maybe it would be a good idea to lay low for now and keep snooping to see if anything more concrete shows up. One thing I do suggest is to read up on Plan A and start implementing it. Even if nothing is going on with our husband, this plan helps YOU to become a better, stronger person. IMHO that is the most important thing you can do for your marriage. I hope this helps a little! I'm not too good at giving advice! Well, Cathy, have a nice day and stay strong! HUGS!
BH