Ok, it is not that terrible. My H and I are 8 months into a great recovery, but for some reason today my mind keeps going to the OW. I'm angry for all that she put us through. She came in and tried to steal my H, after their A was over we went through this whole fatal attraction thing with her. She broke into his truck, followed him to our new home to find out where we live. She called our real estate agent, after we changed our phone number, and petended to be a propective buyer and got our new phone number <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> . Finally, both my H and I got restraining orders to keep her away. Sure enough not long after that, she showed up at our new house in the middle of the night, sneaking around outside. We called the cops and I did get to watch her get carted away in a police car <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> . She posted bail within a couple of hours. Charges were pressed and we went to court. Since it was her first offense they pretty much let her go with a "don't let it happen again" attitude. She walked out of the court room with this smug look on her face <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> I just can't believe this injustice. I have thought of paying to have a billboard made with a picture of her on it, the caption reads "If you see this woman, guard your husband with your life" or just the word "slut" or "for a good time call 555-5555"(I'm feeling so bad I could come up with so many more <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> ). I know I have to get over it, and I will but today is just one of those days, and I just needed to vent.

DU

definitely unsure ,
we do have those days, don't we??? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Let it all out and you'll feel better.

I remember there was once a very good thread:" What you would like to tell OW." (or something like that)
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Think, OW is making a fool of herself!!! What a "goof!" <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

take care and hope your day gets better.
bb