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Ezra, Yes i a'm beside myself at the moment! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> I a'm so upset right now i don't even think i could tell u my story. Now i have told it to brokenhearted the outher day, If u would like to read it it will be on page 2 under general questions 2 probably toward the button now.. It says to brokenhearted. Cathy
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InTheDark45,
By the sounds of things,you are not ready to leave your marriage. Thats good. God wants couples to stay together.
Now as for what you should do-that is up to you. There are many options. What about thinking and KNOWING that you are the most desirable and intelligent woman in the world.
Think it, become it-you are. Sounds like brainwashing I suppose-have you been brainwashed into feeling the way you are? Probably. You can be confidant-this is really who you are and how you are most comfortable. You seem insecure because someone(your husband perhaps) has trained you to feel this way to meet his needs selfishly. Love should not be selfish. God created you to love and be loved freely without these obstacles. Destroy the isecurities before they destroy you. Be the CONFIDANT woman that God created you to be-don't believe those lies anymore.Practice this.
Your husband will most likely notice the differance in you.
I do not know all of your problems, but this one I see. Show your husband Who YOU REALLY ARE. Not what he tried to create.
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