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#1030570 09/27/02 01:36 PM
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Maw,
I can't find your reply u said u posted to me. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

#1030571 09/27/02 01:41 PM
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Maw,
Never mind i read your post. Will reply later on ty. Cathy

#1030572 09/27/02 02:06 PM
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Maw,
U ask me if i have tried to bluff him on things, yes i have don't seem to work. And Yes i think he is on drugs!! But again can't prove it. The night he came home with the card he was acting very strange. His eyes looked very weird, not sure just how to explain it. I ask him about that card he got me and what the inside said, and he said i a'm just really tried now been a long day will tell u what it means later on. Now come on he got the card so u know he knows just what the inside meant. He can't reamber things from day to day. It is like he is in his own little world, don't care about nothing. U ask me if i had the stuff to see like bank account withdraws ect , no not now i don't. Not sure what happened to it, maybe still be here in the house somewhere. See awhile back he was supposed to file bankrupey, (sorry for the spelling) Well he told me he did, and as the months went by i said to him, this is taking a very long time for our court date, and that is when he just started giving me excuess why our court date has not come yet. Well i found out later that he diden't even file. I confronted him about it and he first said what are talking about YES i did file. So then i said don't lie to me i know u diden't i called the attorney, and he said u never did file. So that is when he had to admit to it that ok he diden't, then i ask him ok well then what did u do with the 600.00 dollors that he had to start the bankruspy and he told me he paid bills with it. yeah right <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> He don't even keep up with the bills now he is supposed to pay. See i feel like i a'm at a lost i can't follow him to see what he is up to as i only have i car, and can't even talk to him as he just allways says i don't know what u are talking about or gets mad at me, All it seems i can do is just sit here and wait and hope i will catch him 1 day. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

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Cathy - I don't know what to tell you - you actually sound like a prisoner in your marriage - Kind of like he is in charge of everything - Do you two get along ?? I mean do you do things - or does he just go about his stuff and ignore you - coming and going??? I really don't know what to tell you - I did see your thread about computers - I am sure that you will get some advice from someone who can help you - if not do you have some teenager in the neighborhood that could help you - they tend to know everything about computers??? I mean what happens if you say ok - like give him an ultimatum and say you either clean up, come clean or get out - you know not so drastic but let him know that you mean business and you want to be involved in everything from now on - your marriage is a partnership not a dictatorship....

#1030574 09/27/02 11:32 PM
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Maw,
Yes sometimes we do get along ok, but it is when i know he is lying to me that we start fighting cause i can't help but to confront him about it. And yes i have told him before either u start making me apart of the marrige or it is over, and he says at the time ok he will, and does for awh
ile but then slowly goes back to his old ways. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />


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