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I was married for 20 years, the last of which my wife was unfaithful. We are now divorced and I have met a very nice woman. We have a great relationship but I am worried about one thing. She was married ( her husband died from drinking too much) and she was unfaithful to him. She shared this with me knowing what I went through in my marriage. I am worried that she was unfaithful once and may be to me some day if thing are not perfect in our marriage. Does anyone have any advice for me.
TOM
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Tom,
Welcome to MB. You are in an area where infidelity is greatly discussed. If you are seeking a lasting relationship, it must be built on honesty and respect. Take a look at the book his needs/her needs, read it together. Take the emotional needs questionnaire and see how you both feel about each others needs.
That will be a start. If you want to try IC counseling with Steve or Jennifer, it might be good.
I understand your need to be cautious. Rightly so. Hope it works out.
take care, L.
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Tom, Welcome to MB. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> As Orchid said u have come to a great site where many people can give u great advice Orchid for 1. Anytime u need to just vent and get things out come and post, As this will help u. Take care Cathy
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