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Hello everyone,
H told me about all the women he thought about. Stated no affair only thoughts. Mentioned to him my girlfriend who is a nurse met one of the women he told me about. He asked how she met her. I said my friend was her cousin's nurse. All of a sudden question time. Is her cousin sick? Whats wrong with her? Does she have cancer? It seemed really strange that he was asking me these questions about a woman's cousin who he hardly knew. Everytime I think we're getting somewhere he comes up with something that makes me question how honest he has been. I would like input on this. Am I crazy?
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Hi, Downandout. Might be good if some of the men jumped in here.
My first reaction to your post is the thought that they say men have a lustful thought about every 5 seconds. The thoughts without an affair part sounds normal.
The curiousity about this woman does not sound so normal. Try to encourage your H to be honest and work on areas you feel need addressing.
Would you two be willing to see a counselor? It might help you work things through to a peaceful resolve.
All the best to you.
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