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Love's Transcendence
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Speaking with a friend this afternoon, we were talking about if I could survive my W's affair turning physical (it is still emotional) since she had asked me if I would take her back if I was right that the A would crash and burn. I said that I wasn't sure, today I say I probably would not take her back. He said to me, if you really love her, and it seems you do, you will because Love Transcends Everything.

Your thoughts?

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Your friend may very well be right. I say that if my husband cheated on me, I could not forgive him. But I have tolerated other things that I thought that I couldn't so we all cross our own bridges when we come to them-right?
My first husband had a one night thing while we were seperated and I forgave him, yet I found the "marriage bed not a sacred",and had aPA later. We did not break-up til years later due to his alcohol use. So who knows? You will know one way or another if this is the case of your wife.

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