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[better.. he tol dme this is just a bo didly little song, a happy song he sd.

Is there a hidden message or am I just crazy? I think hidden message.

My husband cannot tell me I mean anything to him, but writes songs and want s me to get it from the song???

Thanks , HONEY <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

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Honey,
I can't access the song right now, but I believe when actions and words don't agree, believe the actions. Writing a song is a little of both, but more of an action, I think.

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Honey (feels weird calling someone other than my W that!) - I listened to the song.

I gotta girl and she's so fine,
one day she's gonna be all mine
She don't even know
She don't even know
She don't even know
She don't even know

I gotta girl that's sweet as honey,
I wanna give her all my money
She don't even know
She don't even know
She don't even know
She don't even know

Who's the girl that's sweet and so fine? You? OW?

And who's the girl that don't even know? You? OW?

I don't even know!

I'd tell him, "about the lyrics, well I really like the guitar playing." LOL!

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Honey,

I can't listen to it right now, but will later. Sometimes when we can't express what we want to say in words, songs and letters are so much easier.

Also, sometimes we are afraid to express ourselves because we will break down!!

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hope that I am the girl.. there used to be a song called lisa ann, my name.. there were many others.. but since there is no ow.. maybe he is trying to get something across to me??? he doesnt say so though.. just listen tot he song.. but this has been a pattern throughout our relationship , he is better in song and letters. romantic, yes.

Thanks for listening, I know it is short- not a real love song, bo didley, but a bit of a message, I hope.

We are having money issues, and I need money from him, and I think he wants to help... Hopefully he wants to be with me too????

thanks friends, HOney

ps, I first picked on e or two or even 3 sad names for mb, they were all taken.. then I thought.. gee, I am tired of never being called honey anymore.. used to be the usual by my h... so I just typed it in.. tada, I have gotten to be a honey without him around! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

hugs, HONEY <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

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Honey,
That page is not available for me to see, but I know that for a lot of people, writing is a better outlet than speaking. So if your relationship has always progressed like this, you are probably right. Or maybe I just still believe there is hope for you both. I'll keep my fingers crossed that WH is coming out of the fog, even if it is just to write songs to you!!

HUGS!!
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thanks pq and everyone.. he is seeming to come out in his own little ways. I heard more blame yesterday.. oh I hate that. But I am letting it go.

Going Crazy suggested to me , I say... "i'm sorry you feel that way" and leave it at that when he goes there... that is what I am now doing, because that is all I can do. I have apologized, and changed my behavior, that is all I can do in addition to "im sorry you feel that way"... long arguements abuot why I did what I did and how sorry I am go nowhere.. and the same with him I guess.

I do not need long explanations, apologies,etc anymore.. just changed attitudes and new ways of doing things.

Hugs to all of you, HOney

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Honey:
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Let me know if we are doing better.. he tol dme this is just a bo didly little song, a happy song he sd.

Is there a hidden message or am I just crazy? I think hidden message.

My husband cannot tell me I mean anything to him, but writes songs and want s me to get it from the song???

Thanks , HONEY <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> [/QB]</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">

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Let me know if we are doing better.. he tol dme this is just a bo didly little song, a happy song he sd.

Is there a hidden message or am I just crazy? I think hidden message.

My husband cannot tell me I mean anything to him, but writes songs and want s me to get it from the song???

Thanks , HONEY <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">

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[QBLet me know if we are doing better.. he tol dme this is just a bo didly little song, a happy song he sd.

Is there a hidden message or am I just crazy? I think hidden message.

My husband cannot tell me I mean anything to him, but writes songs and want s me to get it from the song???

Thanks , HONEY <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> [/QB]</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Honey:
[QBhis is just a bo didly little song, a happy song he sd.

Is there a hidden message or am I just crazy? I think hidden message.

My husband cannot tell me I mean anything to him, but writes songs and want s me to get it from the song???

Thanks , HONEY <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> [/QB]</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">

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Let me know if we are doing better.. he tol dme this is just a bo didly little song, a happy song he sd.

Is there a hidden message or am I just crazy? I think hidden message.

My husband cannot tell me I mean anything to him, but writes songs and want s me to get it from the song???

Thanks , HONEY <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> [/QB][/QUOTE]

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[Let me know if we are doing better.. he tol dme this is just a bo didly little song, a happy song he sd.

Is there a hidden message or am I just crazy? I think hidden message.

My husband cannot tell me I mean anything to him, but writes songs and want s me to get it from the song???

Thanks , HONEY <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> [/QB][/QUOTE]

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[, a happy song he sd.

Is there a hidden message or am I just crazy? I think hidden message.

My husband cannot tell me I mean anything to him, but writes songs and want s me to get it from the song???

Thanks , HONEY <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> [/QB][/QUOTE]

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