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my wife and I have been seperated for 3 months last thursday I asked her to go with me and our daughter some place ...
she went with us that night we talk about alot of things.. I asked her if this divorce was what she wanted and she said no ..she is staying at her moms and I'm at my grandparents ,from that night we have been together every night for a little bit ..through the week we have even went and looked at living room suit .. Yesterday I sent flowers at work for sweetest day cause heck i thought things was going to get better ,well she told me that we should back of a little bit ,she said give her a couple of weeks to get her life together..last night her and some friends from work when to the boat to gamble
WHAT DO I DO
I fell if I back off that she will start wanting the divorce again is there hope and what do I do
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LUMPY,
I think you just need to tell her ONCE that you love her and want to work on the marriage but that you are going to back off and give her the space she needs and then do so. Let her know that a divorce is not what you want, tell her you don't want to put pressure on her, that you will wait a while but not forever. Then don't contact her again until she contacts you. Just my opinion.
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I agree with 'Almost There'. Don't appear needy or desperate to have her back. tell her you love her, tell her you want to try and save your M and leave it at that. Let her make the next move.
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