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Well a friend advised this as romantic. Still working on. Tell me what you think. If you'd like to try it let me know I'll help you.

Go to: http://alanlovesjudy.tripod.com

doen't cost me a dime. I will let someone tell her about it later...when finished. Must spell url as listed EXACTLY above. Turn on speakers EVEN HAS MUSIC!

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This is fun.........occupies my spare time....not like I got much. I will be adding pics of wife and kids soon, so many of you have an opportunity to see the family behind the fog!!??

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AlanArthur,

Took a look at your handy work major LB points are to be awarded. Help me how can I do something like this too...

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sure......do you have yahoo or msn messenger for chat? If so I am yankeebluebbq@hotmail.com (msn) or alanneila for yahoo messenger....just add me to friends......

or just email me at yankeebluebbq@hotmail.com and I'll help

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It is wonderful! What is the song playing?

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I think it's wonderful. Extremely sweet. I am a sucker for romance. Should help.

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Great job, AlanArthur!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

I love it and I'm sure your W will also!!

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Thanks Thanks Thanks.......will be putting pictures on soon....any other ideas to put on there?

The song is one of my favorites.....makes me cry thinking about US. It is "And That's What Hurts" by Hall & Oates.

If you want it go to KaZaa and download free or I can send you the file. Thanks

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My wife is back to being hateful......should talk to her in another 6 weeks. Like a groundhog that sees it's shadow!lol So, I won't be able to let her know of site..............maybe someday she'll realize I love her.....hopefully before it's too late. <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />

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A very thoughtful and creative idea. Your strong love for your wife is very evident.

What worries me is the counter. If I was your wife, I would wonder why 59 other people had been viewing the site that seems quite personal. What is special about a marriage is what is kept between husband and wife. A marriage is between two people....just a thought.

I am sorry to hear your wife is being hateful and that it seems that it will be weeks before communication will begin again. I've been apart from my H for far too long, and am also waiting for him to be willing to communicate with me again. Keep working on yourself, and don't lose hope.

I wish you well,

Jen

<small>[ October 23, 2002, 06:44 AM: Message edited by: Jen Brown ]</small>

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Disreguard what I said. I was unaware of the restraining order.

Its not a good idea to even have this site under the circumstances. I hope it won't come back to bite you.

Zoey

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I don't think you should send a link in an email, because you would be violating the restraining order. I think the right thing to do is not let her even see this, but hold back and play it really cool; though this is nice to work off your own feelings.

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yea,,,,,,,I was going to show her link because of our talk last Thursday, but now that she has again used me as a doormat I can't right now. Hopefully, I can show her down the road.

You right about counter....I didn't think of that.

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I'd think twice about putting her name & picture up for everyone to see. After all, with a restraining order it COULD (and probably will)be easily misunderstood.

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