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Just thinking about this as I was reading the posts....

What if the WS views EA as "just something stupid" that happened? " it didn't go that far etc"

There are the "i'm sorry" apologies etc and Reassurances but if EX was viewed as (imho) "not serious" that what depth is the remorse?

Am I just being paranoid and insecure? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

comments appreciated

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Add ing a ramble to the post.... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

I don't think all OW/OMs are the same...just as no WH/BS situation is the same...but "situational ethics" seems to be an exercise in denial here...

It is like there are no more ground rules...
Maybe I do live in a storybook world. Yes everyone plays a part here...but the characters have taken over the play and there isn't the traditional cathasis...

There is no one hero/villian of the piece, everyone was responsible for the "death" of the M, and the audience is left searching for answers.

What can we learn from this confused state of M that exists currently? What can we teach our children?...

Feeling like Pooh bear...going off to think...


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