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my h has a "friend". she just got a weekend job where he works. guess who trained her. now instead of seeing his children he stays at work with her until her shift is over. He says he is not having an affair but someone sent him a paper on workplace relationships and he got major upset. I just wish someone would mail or call his parents and tell them the truth. I am tired of his lying and getting away with it
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((Luv_my_hubby)): Have you confronted your H yourself?
His anger is a defense mechanism. If even people at work can see how inappropriate his infatuation with this lady is.
Let him know this is a major lovebuster. Ask him if he will consider attending marriage counselling with you. I don't know how you do it in a loving but firm manner but you need to put your foot down NOW before things progress.
I'm speaking from experience--I allowed myself to pursue a "friendship" that turned into an A and made a big mess of my marriage and my life. Fortunately, I'm recovered now.
I sure hope you can reach your H with a reality check and that he will remember why he chose you for life.
I'm sure others will be along with advice for you,too.
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