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Need more advice about making a confession. Please give me some constructive advice.
How do I confess an ended affair? What do I say to my spouse? How do I answer the question of keeping it hidden for a long time? Do I apologize, ask for forgiveness?
Do I just bow my head and wait for the axe to fall?
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Hi Froz,
If you want we could try to set up a dialogue. I am a BS and I can give you examples of how I reacted and what could help from your side. This way you be able to prepare for what might come.
if you are out there right now, I'm here now and I'll be here for approx. 30 min.
take care
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Thanks BlondBlossom,
Looks like I'm too late!
The problem here as that there is so much more than the A. We've had major marital problems, major step child problems, and many many more problems.
We've been through so much I don't feel we could survive one more little thing, nevermind a major thing like this...
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Froz,
If you would like to, try to explain what problems you have had. I'm not trying to be nosy, I would truely love to help you. You sound like you really want your marriage to work and therefore I believe that it is worth trying eveything.
Not many BS have the luck to have a WS that wants to give his 100% from the beginning on.
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I have to go now, my H will be coming home to eat.
I'll be back later.
take care
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