AAAGH!
Heh I decided to do a routine check on the XOW whereabouts. I do this every half year or so because she is actually a very unpleasant person, and my FWH is very distressed with the idea of ever bumping into her, (he really hates her guts due to stuff non A related that went on when they were a couple way before he ever met me), so I keep an eye on our home town and just take into account her location, just in case she decided to move back here and we had any chances on bumping into her.
Well the moment of truth seems to have arrived. Apparently she got fired or quit her last job, and with nowhere else to go she has decided to land back here.
Everybody is free to come and go, no problem with that, but sheesh this country, this state is huge and she decides to make her move back here, even when she used to say she hated this city.
I was thinking of getting an address check so we know were she lives and where to avoid going, but I think that is too much.
She never lists her phone because she is very shady, so there is no way we can find her the normal every-day way, (phone pages). Our phone is listed though, and I am fearing that we are sitting ducks.
We are one year into true sincere recovery, and I am a bit scared and shaken.
I have this tendency of needing to know where my enemies are so I can at least keep away from them and their areas and not have to have a bad time if we ever cross paths... once again I only have two "enemies", both xOW's that I want to avoid.
I think this is all a kind of bad omen, since two days ago I had this bad dream in which my H and I were walking along the street and while looking for our car we noticed a car that looked exactly like OW's. My H examined it a little bit more and said it definetely was hers. He started to get agitated and angry, and at the same time very protective of me. But the situation was distressing for me too. She came out of nowhere, (or someone suppossed to be her, I have neve seen her face to face), and I had to stop my H from getting into a fight right then, right there with her.
I know this is going to sound crazy but on time to time I have very detailed and very accurate foretelling dreams, and I am hoping this is not one of them.
What should I do??? Help!!!!
