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...Letter or phonecall template examples, for WS who want to initiate formal NC with the OP?
If so, where do I find them??
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An example is in SAA (surviving an affair). Basically, the gist of the letter is to sound more formal than personal. It is to be from the WS, who is to tell the OP that they must end their relationship together immediately, as the WS loves their S deeply, and is going to work on the M with them. The WS then requests that the OP stop contacting them, and claims to do the same. And it should not end with "love" or "all my best", etc. It should simply be signed, WS.
Does that help? I'll try a search for Harley's examples on the site now.
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I can't find it.... but I'm not very good with searching on this site. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
If it can't be found on here, then I will pull out my copy of SAA and type it in here for you, k?
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Sample no contact letters.
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Great work whippit! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> I didn't even bother to check the forum threads! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> I was just looking through the rest of this site, and couldn't find them. Ah yes... I will once again blame my blonde hair on this one!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
Amelie26, I hope you can find what you need in those example letters.
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<img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> No sweat, Karen. And don't blame the blond hair because that would mean I found the post thru stupid luck!
Amelie ... best of luck to you as you navigate these difficult waters. We're all behind you.
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