Hi folks, new around here. I have a problem that doesn't seem to fit in the current catagories. For the last four years I have been faced with an ongoing accusation of infidelity. Let me state at this point that I have NEVER been physically, emotionally or even intellectually unfaithfull to my partner. There was a point about 2 years ago where she even stated to me that she knew that there was nothing between myself and the two women she thought I might be involved with. I even ended the frienships I had with them so she would not have to wonder about it anymore. The situation refuses to die, she has continued to accuse me of wanting and being with someone else. I have tried talking to her and being more loving and supportive, but I also know I have been shutting down more and more the longer this goes on. I just don't have a clue how to deal with the totally false belief on her part that I can't be trusted. I could really use your help now because she recently separated from me and wants no contact whatsoever.

The one time I knew a man whose wife was always jealous, and he never cheated, it turns out the wife was cheating all over town and threw her husband out. Is that a possibility?

This woman would get jealous if her husband so much as had to work closely with a female colleague.

I don't believe that's the case here.