O.K. Not much to get excited about but evry little bit helps.

I did respond that I took care of little $15 bill that she emailed me about. Also told her she does need the time too sort things out emotionally and I respect that. I asked her to let me know what I can do to make things better between us. I reminded her that I am here for her and will always be.....

Well she called restaurant today (my place) and asked my mother (whom answered the phone) if I could send her child support early (1/2 due on 1st and 15th) She said she just had to pay utility bill and needs it. I did pay 2 smaller bills the other day. Said to let her know if I can.

Funny thing is, if I had answered phone she would have asked me. At least she called even if financial...she still called.

I emailed that I would try to do that for her.......SHOULD I PAY IT EARLY AT HER REQUEST or ABIDE BY ORDER AND PAY WHEN DUE? I know financial support is one of her needs right now, but will it help if she experiences the reality of doing this on her own. I don't want her back just because of finances and don't believe she will, but it may play some part in this.

ALL BS??? Did you go back and work on marriage based on one superficial thing??? Do finances play an important role in coming back to marriage?? I read it does...just want some real life stories.

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