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#1039815 11/13/02 03:06 AM
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Hi everyone,

please excuse my last postings. I was feeling, well how do I explain? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

I just simply started to feel very "down" when I was reading a specific post. Nothing that was directed to me. It had nothing to do with me, but I still felt that it was very hurting. But never mind, I won't go into detail, I think the problem is solved.

I just don't want MB to become a problem for me. Now that my marriage has become so wonderfull, I don't want to feel sad about something else. Hope you understand.

I'm going to reduce my time here and yet, I want to help others with their problems.

Please bare with me and excuse my last posting "outbreak!" I was just completely frustrated.

So again, I standing up and brushing myself off!!!!! Let's go on. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

You are all so precious for me.

bb

#1039816 11/13/02 03:11 AM
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bb,

Sorry to hear that you feel down about UR venting. Sometimes or maybe most of the time it's better to vent here that create LB. I'm new to this website but I have gotten some really good advice. I would like to thank you for your signature ( He was my hero....) I actually sent this to my WW and racked up some major Deposits it made her feel really special. I hope that you can continue to help everybody. Peace and thanks for the help. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

#1039817 11/13/02 03:21 AM
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Hi BB, The main thing is you are here. I don't know what has been going on as I've been away from the forum. You are precious to us also and I loved your joke on my cry for help that day!

SH

#1039818 11/13/02 03:25 AM
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Hi therod ,

thanks for the quick reply. I wasn't upset about the venting, I was upset about the way that someone replyed. Very hurting.
Oh well, I'm gonna let that go now. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

I was actually never aware that my signature would help anyone. Thanks!!

I'm now thinking of changing it abit.

He was my "prince" when I met him.
I was his "princess".
There was a time when we both turned into "frogs".
We kissed and we are now "King" and "Queen".
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />


How do you like that one?? hehe

take care
bb

#1039819 11/13/02 03:32 AM
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Hi Seahorse,

thanks!

Wanna hear another one??

Sad Life of a $ENIS!
Born with a head and NO brain,
forced to live with a "Sack"
and the neighbour is a $sshole!!!

oops, I hope that wasn't too harsch!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Embarrassed]" src="images/icons/blush.gif" /> Just got me smiling this morning when I read this.
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

#1039820 11/13/02 03:42 AM
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BB,

It's good the first is still the best!!!!

Hey watch the P*#&$ jokes okay!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Trying to think of a funny one to send UR way. Give me a while I'm having a brain fart!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

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BB!!! I'm so glad you decided to come back and play <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> There are times when I can't take the board either. It's not what anyone says or anything directed at me...it's just that at times it feels like living back then, and I want to live the love and life I have RIGHT NOW! So at times I back away and concentrate on appreciating everything in my life. But while appreciating everything I tend to realize I wouldn't have ANY of it if it weren't for the help of others....so I come back to do what I can.

It's therapudic in a sense...eases a little guilt if I can help someone else...but it's also good for me in that I'm FACING everything I thought and did and what happend, instead of just trying to get OVER it and move on in life. I think when you do that all the emotions and thoughts are still there, they just fester and come back to haunt you when you don't want them to.

Anyway, it's sure good to hear you feel strong enough to be here...even if you do slow down your posting. Take care!!

#1039822 11/13/02 12:01 PM
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Welcome back, BB. We Plan A'd you and were hoping you'd come back. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

I deleted what I typed HERE cuz I felt guilty about it . Ughhhhh ...... Catholic girl.

Jo

<small>[ November 13, 2002, 11:28 AM: Message edited by: Resilient ]</small>

#1039823 11/13/02 02:27 PM
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Resilient ,
well now you really got me curious. I wanna know what you had typed and then deleted. You have said "A" now you have to say "B"!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Don't worry, I won't tell anyone!!! Come on, girl!!!!!!

You guys really made my day, thank you!!!

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bb

#1039824 11/13/02 02:28 PM
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BB -- I didn't see your other post, but am very glad you decided to stay. Your advice is always thoughtful, kind, and helpful. -- USH

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Hi BB,

Glad you decided to take a break and not outright leave. You have been a contributing member that has helped many.

You know that old addage......'sticks and stones....' Well it happens a lot hear, while it doesn't break our bones..... it sure hearts our muscle (our heart)...... happens to the best of us. Hey, I got so ticked off at one thread, I deleted my posts and I thought I was helping!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> Oh well, I still hurt when that MBer fell out of recovery in less than a week. My post had warned her to be cautious about his recovery efforts and she took it the wrong way..... oh well... can't please everyone... and I think that's life's lesson. We can't please everyone all the time and we can't fool all the people all the time either! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

welcome back,
L.

#1039826 11/13/02 03:05 PM
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by blondblossom:
<strong>Resilient ,
well now you really got me curious. I wanna know what you had typed and then deleted. You have said "A" now you have to say "B"!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Don't worry, I won't tell anyone!!! Come on, girl!!!!!!

You guys really made my day, thank you!!!

hugs
bb</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Lets just say what I typed was a play on the !enis Poem that you wrote. It was a doozey too!

Love,
Jo

And, oh ... BTW: Hi Orchid! Love you!

#1039827 11/14/02 01:12 AM
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Dear Blossom,
I am glad you're back. I felt sad to see you leave, as you'd always been inspirational to me. I know what you mean, however. Sometimes I get down reading here, and it can be overwhelming. I can imagine , in your case that it's hard to read here and 'go back' to that time before things were good again.

Anyway, glad you're back! Take care.
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